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by Brian A. "Drew" Chalker
People always come into your life for a reason,
a season and a lifetime. When you figure out
which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is
usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly
or inwardly. They have come to assist you through
a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and
support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or
even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend
too you, and they are. They are there for a
reason,you need them to be. Then, without any
wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient
time, this person will say or do something to
bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they
die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes
they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The
prayer you sent up has been answered and it is
now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it
is because your turn has come to share, grow, or
learn. They may bring you an experience of peace
or make you laugh. They may teach you something
you have never done. They usually give you an
unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is
real! But, only for a season. And like Spring
turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season
eventually ends.
LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of
lessons; those things you must build upon in order
to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is
to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);,
and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas in your life. It is said that
love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you
for being part of my life..... |
